I wanted to introduce myself.  I currently take care of my 85 year old mother that suffers from dementia.  I'm the youngest of four girls and have primary day-to-day decision making authority for my mom.  I previously assisted in helping my in-laws while living next door to them.  My husband and I were able to be with them until they passed away.  I wanted to share as much information as I have gathered during the years of providing care.  I have learned firsthand the effects of dementia, degradation in the aging process, the everyday fight to maintain independence, and choosing quality of life over quantity of life.  I am a Christian and believe it is my responsibility to help others whenever possible.  I have a bachelor's degree (dual major) in Social Psychology and Management Human Resources and a master's degree in Human Resources Development.  My 30 year federal career was primarily a combination of Human Resources and Transition Assistance for the military.  I originally was on track for a degree in Counseling, however, I finally put into adult words what most people already knew about me.  "I have a limited amount of patience and a low tolerance for stupidity."  I found I could not provide long term counseling because I can't help someone that is unwilling to change behavior.  Short term counseling for transition worked well, as did Human Resources.  I have compassion for people and want to allow them to live the best life available.